Pleasure is a topic we don’t talk about enough. Who wouldn’t want to have an amazing time? What does it take to add more pleasure to our lives? We all have our theories about why it matters, but there is nothing quite so telling as experience. This article is aimed at sharing what I’ve learned about satisfaction and pleasure by talking about ways to keep things flowing smoothly.
If you think pleasure is only a physical thing then you are wrong. Pleasure can be found in many places, including your brain and body. If you want to enjoy the sexual pleasures of intimacy then you need to do more than increase your efforts at foreplay it’s time for an attitude shift from the way we treat sex and intimacy.
Pleasure matters in intimacy. We shouldn’t be focusing on rationalizing the end goal of intimacy, but rather on cultivating this feeling of pleasure and filling up those blocks with pleasure-making activities.
Pleasure matters because it’s how we know something feels good. Pleasure is important to most people and is also a way of communicating what you like to your partner.
Pleasure is a sign that you are taking care of yourself, which can improve many aspects of your life, including your health and well-being. When pleasure is taken off the table, it can be harder to get in touch with your own needs. It can be easy to take pleasure for granted when it comes to sex, but it’s very important for many reasons. Pleasure is an essential part of intimacy and it is worth prioritizing.
Pleasure is not just something that feels good; it’s a coach that helps us become stronger and more capable of being in our pleasure, to be able to experience a fuller life. We have been taught not to experience pleasure, not to ask for pleasure, even as we are driven by pleasure. Our inability to ask for what we need and want has imprisoned us in addictions and other types of ruins. What could we have in intimacy if we were courageous enough to speak our desires, needs, and dreams? We speak of this liberation with excitement when we are with others who share the same values.
To conclude, pleasure is the ultimate goal of intimacy in a marriage. Sexual intimacy is just one part of sexual compatibility. The other parts include honesty, respect, commitment, friendship, and mutual esteem. All of these things lead to great sex and make for a happy relationship.